Hi I'm Gretchen Rivas with Relax! Massage Therapy in Wilmington, North Carolina and today we are going to talk about sensual massage techniques for the neck and especially the back of the neck. The things we need for this are a table, oil and some space. When you are working on somebody in a sexual way, one of the things you want to keep in mind is you want to keep your pressure in line with what they like. Too light of a pressure may feel good to some people, may tickle others. So, make sure you get feedback and you are communicating with your partner on how the pressure feels. You want to take just a little bit of oil. You don't want to use too much. I have been working on Kelly a little bit here already and I've totally messed up her hair so expect that. Tell them if they don't want their hair messed up then they'll have to do it another time but you just come in through here and you want to stroke through the neck. With sensual massage, you don't want to do anything really deep or heavy pressure. This is all about making them feel really good and really relaxed and really into the moment. So you just kind of come in through here really gently, stroke up through here, work through the neck area. You can come on both sides like this. This feels good. Now of course, if you don't have a face cradle and you're just doing something lying on the bed sideways, you know have them turn their head back and forth and adjust it so that their neck doesn't get stiff and then just work through the neck area very gently. You know, slow and soothing. And that's how you give a sensual back of the neck massage.