Hi this is Jessica Claire with New York Dating Coach in New York City. In this clip I am generally going to give you some tips on flirting. Flirtation should always be fun. If you are not having fun, you are not doing it right. Flirtation can happen whether you are in a relationship or you are not. I think it is a very natural human reaction to the opposite sex or the same sex depending on where you stand. If you meet someone and you start to flirt it should be almost like a checker game. I get to do something and then you get to do something and now we are flirting and it should go very easily. It should be like a smooth slide, smile, have fun, tease politely. Flirtation should never be cruel or mean. It should always be something that gives you kind of butterflies and then you can feel when it is becoming a reciprocal cyclic kind of thing. When you flirt you are having fun and if you are not having fun you are not flirting correctly. This is Jessica Claire in New York City.