Women born under the sign of Gemini are typically bright, chatty and mercurial. They often have eclectic interests and an eager thirst for knowledge, which they soak up like a sponge. Gemini is an air sign, which means Gemini women are usually compatible with fellow "airs" Libra and Aquarius. Beyond that, you can attract a Gemini girl by understanding the traits that define her sign and applying them to your courtship tactics. A few key tips can help speed you on your way.
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Flirt intelligently. Gemini girls tend to be very cerebral and are turned on by interesting conversations about significant ideas. If you want to attract one, be ready to talk about something besides the Cubs game or the latest round of celebrity gossip. Erudition, education and clever quips always go over well. So do double entendres and similar plays on words.
Arouse her curiosity. Gemini girls are like cats: they can't say no to new or intriguing things. Find some interest that she may not be familiar with but that looks fun. Avoid following the crowd, and don't talk about the same books, movies or news items as everyone else. It's apt to bore her. Show her what a unique person you are and invite her to share. You'll be surprised how eagerly she accepts the invitation.
Shift gears. Gemini girls are eclectic and able to multitask very easily. While you shouldn't just lurch from one topic to the next, you can draw her eye by displaying interest in a wide variety of different topics. Find different things to do on dates, and don't just settle into a single routine.
Keep it casual. Gemini girls are probably as interested in settling down with the right guy as anyone, but it can take time for them to get there. Keep expressions of affection light and playful, and avoid grand displays of intimacy too soon. Gemini girls are flighty and attracted to those who skim the surface before plunging in too deep.
Focus on her hands. As a zodiac sign, Gemini is associated with the digits, the arms, the shoulders and the lungs. When you touch a Gemini girl, touch her on the fingers lightly to stimulate the nervous system, and keep your physical contact centred around that area.
Stay away from the drama. Geminis are easily agitated and can become upset if things get too intense. While you shouldn't walk on eggshells, be prepared to let crises roll off your back and to take things as they come rather than getting caught up in little details.
Tips and warnings
- Astrological signs are a generalisation, and individual Gemini girls are as unique as any other demographic. While these tips are helpful, they shouldn't serve as a substitute for seeing the girl for who she is and responding to her as a person rather than a zodiac sign.