How to Find a Dominant Woman

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Women are normally socialised to be compliant and cooperative. This can make finding a dominant woman a challenge. It is possible to find a dominant woman if you are willing to search for one. However, it is important to avoid the mistake of appearing to be weak if you wish to attract a dominant woman.

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    Finding a Dominant Woman

  1. 1

    Know your personal limits. Someone who is looking for light bondage will conduct an entirely different search from someone who is seeking a full-scale submissive relationship with a dominant mistress.

  2. 2

    Use specialised ads and dating services. Advertise yourself as someone seeking a dominant woman. State specifically your likes, dislikes and personal limits.

  3. 3

    Learn the proper terminology. This is especially important when posting a personal ad or a profile. Avoid the common mistake of confusing "dominate" with "dominant" in your ad.

  4. 4

    Learn to recognise dominant female traits. Dominant women like to be in control of their personal circumstances. Dominant women may also be very competitive.

  5. 5

    Consider moving to a large urban area. It is much more likely that dominant women can be found there. Larger cities are also more likely to have an established SM (sadomasochism) scene than a small town.

Tips and warnings

  • Present yourself as someone with high self-esteem who can take care of his basic needs. This will convince a dominant woman that you can endure being dominated.
  • Dominant women are interested in a range of relationships, and not just those involving complete masochism of their partners.
  • Do not make assumptions about a woman based on her looks. Dominant women are not necessarily larger or physically stronger than other women.
  • Adult personals websites and services frequently feature explicit language and images. They are not for children.

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