Sexy Birthday Ideas for a Long Distance Relationship

Updated June 13, 2017

The way you celebrate the birthday of your significant other demonstrates his or her value to you. When your relationship is long distance, the best way to celebrate a birthday might be hard to discover. Celebrating the birthday of your love interest in a sexy way could be the perfect way to excite your partner and demonstrate your willingness to do whatever it takes to keep things thrilling, whether you are together or not.

Scented Letter

Sending a scented letter might seem old-fashioned, but it is a great way to excite your partner. Activating one of the senses is a powerful way to ignite feelings. The Social Issues Research Center reports that the sense of smell is connected to the limbic system, which is the part of the brain that processes emotion. When your partner smells your letter, feelings associated with you will come flooding back. Choose a scent that is considered sexy, such as cinnamon, musk or vanilla. You can also fill the letter with sexy photos of yourself to make new memories.

Seductive Music

Sending your partner a CD with new music that is suggestive can be a great way to spice things up. Choose a sexy song that causes you to dream of him or her every time you hear it. Good examples are songs that remind you of your partner's physical qualities, such as his or her eyes, touch or gaze. Choose songs that are exciting, tempting and provocative to add some excitement to your partner's special day.

Countdown of Small Gifts

Directing your lover from place to place in search for suggestive gifts is an exciting way to stir up his or her birthday. If you have a friend who lives in the same place as your partner, ask your friend to leave the gifts in the places you request. While you might not be present, you can leave little pieces of yourself for your partner to find, whether it be articles of your clothing, pictures of yourself or sexy ideas written in small notes. Leave the sexiest surprise for the end; hint at a future date when you two will reunite.


Showing up is the sexiest way to surprise your partner on his or her special day! Either be waiting somewhere you know he or she will be or give your partner a call from the airport to announce your arrival. Then, focus on making the night special and sexy in the way that only your presence can make possible. Think a romantic dinner followed by whatever the evening might bring afterward. You are giving your partner the ultimate gift by being there to celebrate and that is something he or she will likely never forget.

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About the Author

Kristen Moutria has a Bachelor of Arts in psychology from Evangel University. She is currently pursuing her Master of Arts in education from the University of Nebraska.