How to Know if Your Boyfriend has Another Girlfriend

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How to Know if Your Boyfriend has Another Girlfriend
Finding out your boyfriend has another girlfriend can be devastating. (Jupiterimages/Goodshoot/Getty Images)

Sometimes people cheat on one another in relationships and try to hide it for as long as possible from their significant other. These relationships can be devastating for everyone involved. Women should be aware of some of the most common signs that their boyfriend is cheating on them, but should also remember that these signs do not always guarantee that your boyfriend has another girlfriend. Always communicate your concerns to your boyfriend before jumping to conclusions.

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    Recognise changes in his habits. If he didn't previously show an interest in his attire and grooming, and is now doing so, it may raise a warning flag in your mind. Notice also if he suddenly begins staying late at work more often or if he claims he is spending more time with his friends. Although changes in habits don't necessarily mean that something is up, they are a good indicator that something has changed in your man's life.

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    Watch out for strange and mysterious phone calls. Every time your man's phone rings, it doesn't mean that his other girlfriend is on the other end. However, if he is sneaky or refuses to tell you who is calling if you ask, he may be hiding something. Also, if he appears to be texting more often than usual or gets nervous every time his phone goes off, this may be a sign that something is up.

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    Understand that if your boyfriend becomes more suspicious of you and you are not making any personal changes to your routine, this could just be his way of projecting his guilt upon you. Some people who are cheating on their significant other may feel guilty and get stressed and then take out their feelings on their partner. Others may think they are getting away with cheating and begin thinking it's easy to cheat. When they begin to think cheating on someone is easier than it sounds, they may be suspicious that you are getting away with it, too.

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    Figure out why he is lying to you if you catch him in even a small lie. People in relationships should be honest with each other, so if he is lying to you, he might be hiding something bigger. You can determine why your boyfriend is lying to you in a variety of ways. First, you can try asking him why he felt the need to lie to you instead of telling the truth. You can also think about your own responses to things that upset you and determine if any of your responses may inspire him to lie instead of speak the truth.

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    Communicate with him about your concerns in a calm and emotion-free way. Don't be accusatory, but instead let him know the way that you are feeling and ask him if you can talk about it. If he refuses to talk about your concerns, take that as a sign that he doesn't really care about your feelings. Don't try to force him to talk. If he doesn't want to communicate with you, walk away from the relationship or take a break for a while.

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