How to Get Someone to Stop Texting You Without Being Rude

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Texting is an enjoyable activity that allows you to connect with anyone at any time, wherever you are. However, the benefits of texting also bring along with them some serious downfalls. When is it appropriate to put your phone on silent, or turn it off altogether? What if you just need some time to focus on your studies or to relax without a phone in your hand? Whatever it is you want to do but cannot while constantly texting, there are a few ways to get someone to stop texting you without being rude.

Explain that you are preoccupied for a while. Explaining that you are at school, at work or on the road should inform your friend in a polite way that you are not available to text at this moment. A friend who is understanding will totally agree that you should not have to be available at all hours of the day. It is important that you have time to focus on whatever activity it is you are doing, such as paying attention in class, manoeuvring through a severe thunderstorm, or hanging out with someone who means a lot to you.

Be upfront about the times you can text, when you see the person who is constantly texting you in person. In a friendly tone, explain that there are certain times you need to be fully present in order to get your job done correctly or to contribute the most you can to a specific activity. Talking to her about this in person will cause understanding, awareness and a deeper comprehension of the space you need.

Explain to your friend that while you may not be able to text now, you can and will text him back later on when you have a little more freedom. There is no need to explain exactly why you cannot text; you are entitled to your own space, and your friend does not need to know every part of your business. Leaving the future open for texting interactions will put your friend at ease.

Set up an automated text message to reply when you cannot. If you are busy with class, work or anything else, set up an automated text message to send when you cannot get to your phone. An example of this would be, "Hey guys, this is Rob. I'm not currently available to text back, but I will return your text message as soon as I have a free moment." This will give people the idea to stop texting and wait until you reply yourself. Contact your phone service for specific information on how to set up automated texting on your phone.

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