Hi this is Jessica Claire with New York Dating Coach in New York City. In this clip we are going to discuss how to attract older women. Regardless of what category this falls in to for you, five years older, ten years older, I think it's really important to be as mature as you can possibly be. Certainly you had your wild days, you love to have fun, you are young, but to attract an older woman you have to be able to make decisions and be in charge. An older woman is very, is much less likely to put up with your crap if you will, then a younger woman. So be prepared to go on more expensive dates. Be prepared to talk seriously. Be worldly, read the paper. Accept that dating an adult or someone who considers herself to be an adult is going to require some more adult behavior on your part. Also be proactive in meeting older women. Maybe on your online site you say that you are looking to meet an older woman. Maybe you only hit on older women, to be more attractive to them, be prepared to be large and in charge. This is Jessica Claire in New York City.