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How to get a girlfriend

Updated February 21, 2017

    Step 1

  1. Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.

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    Step 2

  3. Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.

  4. Step 3

  5. Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.

  6. Step 4

  7. Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.

  8. Step 5

  9. Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?

  10. Step 6

  11. Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.

  12. Step 7

  13. If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.

  14. Step 8

  15. If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.

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  • Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right girl for you.


  • Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a girlfriend. Be selective to find the right girl for you.

Things You'll Need

  • Cologne
  • Flowers
  • Pencils Or Pens
  • Breath Fresheners
  • Pads Of Paper
  • Greeting Cards

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