One of the best things in life is sharing a great experience with someone you love. Activities that are only ho-hum when done alone can become highly entertaining when done with a partner or spouse. Shared experiences build memories and bond a couple together more closely.
Married couples or other couples who have been together for a long time often get caught up in the cares of daily life. They spend so much time paying bills, taking care of kids, and working that they forget they started out as best friends who had a lot of fun together. Developing a sense of fun is important in keeping a long-term relationship healthy.
Fun things to do together can include learning something new together, exploring nature, being active together, or jointly giving time to a good cause. Examples of learning something new together could include taking a ballroom dance class or a cooking class at the local community centre. Hiking, swimming, and camping together are entertaining and can create a memorable experience you can look back on many years later. Being active together, whether it's walking, jogging, or playing tennis keeps the heart healthy in more than one way. It can also be fun to volunteer for a good cause together, whether it's serving soup to the homeless or offering to work as a team with your spouse to spruce up the landscaping at your church building or synagogue.
Many couples set aside one night a week to do something fun together and make it a date night. Busy couples with hectic schedules and young children may only be able to carve out one night per month. Whatever the schedule, setting a regular date for having fun together can build anticipation and give you something to look forward to in the middle of a hectic week.
Couples with young children often have the misconception that they should spend every waking hour and every bit of attention on the children. While it's true that infants and toddlers need a lot of their parents' time, taking a few hours a week or per month away from the children to bond as a couple is ultimately good for the parents and the kids.
Having fun together builds a stronger relationship. It reminds you of why you fell in love with your partner in the first place and keeps the romance alive. If you have children, having fun with your partner provides a good example for your children of how a marriage or partnership should be. In addition, after taking time away from the children, you typically come back refreshed and with more energy to give to your kids.