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Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City. In this clip, we're talking about how to flirt with women. Well, it sounds like it's obvious, right? But you can get all nervous, your mouth gets dry so, the best thing to do is to look confident. Women love confident men, and make eye contact, and you can lean in a little bit, and if she's across the room, try to catch her attention. Smile! Smile, smile, smile. It's so much more inviting and just be yourself, but be confident and know that you're a fabulous person that she's really going to want to get to know. Not cocky, but confident. So if you're really not that bold, and it's hard for you to flirt with a woman, then you've got to start inside first. You are what you think you are. So, if you're thinking "oh jeez, I can't go talk to her." Well, duh! She's going to pick up on that and she's not going to be interested in talking to you. But if you're thinking "of course she wants to talk to me. I'm wonderful." Then it'll give you the confidence, she'll pick up on that. Energy's contagious, so if you think you're desirable, she'll know you are. I'm Donna Barnes from New York City.