Hi I'm Donna Barnes I'm a life and dating coach and owner of NY Dating Coach here in New York City. In this clip we'll talk about how to find out if somebody is legally married. And hopefully you can just ask them. And if this is a relationship that you don't trust what they are saying then maybe you don't need to know. Maybe you just need to find another relationship. But if you are really need to find out there are public records. You can either hire a private investigator to go and investigate for that or they do have public records searches that you can do on the internet simply to find out if this person is indeed actually married or if there's any kind of petition for divorce or what exactly is their situation. But in a perfect world you can ask the person and take them at face value. If you feel like there's any deception at all going on there, then trust your instincts and get out of this relationship. It's better then sneaking around behind their back to verify what they say. You want a person that you can just trust. This is Donna Barnes in New York City.