Making your husband want you again often starts with feeling special about yourself and doing a little work to get the spark back. Avoid attacking or coming at him when trying to get attention with advice from a licensed marriage and family therapist in this free video on relationships and romance.
Hello, I am Patti German, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in New York City. In this clip we're going to talk about how to make your husband want you again. I think one of the most disappointing parts in any relationship is when you feel there's a lack of interest in you. Your husband doesn't notice you, he doesn't notice if you've gotten your hair cut, if you've lost weight, he's not interested in you sexually, and I think an important part of trying to recreate the spark that existed a long time ago, is to take a deep look at yourself, and understand what you might be troubled by, and what you can start fixing so that he can notice you without your attacking him, and coming at him, but to just be very gentle, and very special in feelings about yourself. Might mean that you might need to do a little extra work, by either talking with a friend, or a therapist, but it's important to just start feeling special about yourself. This is Patti German in New York City.