Romantic questions to ask your boyfriend

Updated February 21, 2017

Communication is vital to the success of a relationship. Romantic questions can be asked to determine compatibility, along with strengthening the bond you share with your boyfriend. Set aside some time to spend with your boyfriend in a romantic setting, such as a candlelit dinner, asking each other questions. Be prepared for him to want your opinion on the questions you ask him.


Love questions you can ask your boyfriend include what attracted him to you, why he loves you, which qualities he likes the most about you and what went through his mind the day he asked you to be his girlfriend. These questions will give you an ego boost and likely make you feel special while allowing you to learn some things you may not have known.


If you plan on spending a long time with your boyfriend, ask him about his plans for the future. These questions can include whether he wants to get married, if he wants kids or not, where he wants to ultimately live, where he sees himself in 10 years and which career path he wants to take. Use the answers to help determine whether you could have a future with your boyfriend. It's important to be compatible with the person who're going to spend your life with.


Knowing how your boyfriend feels about affection and certain acts of intimacy is important for a happy and healthy relationship. Ask his view on public display of affection, sex before marriage, how often he'd expect to have sex, which sex acts he's unwilling to do, whether he likes cuddling and whether he likes kissing. These questions will both let you know if you're compatible and help you learn his boundaries.


Even after you're in a committed relationship, going on dates can keep the romance alive. Discuss dating topics such as how often he'd want to go out, where he'd want to go, who would pay for the dates, what his dream date is and if he'd prefer to go out with just you or with a group of friends.

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