The advantages & disadvantages of a divorce to a family

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The advantages & disadvantages of a divorce to a family
A divorce can affect children and the psychological health of a couple. (Jeffrey Hamilton/Digital Vision/Getty Images)

When a couple marries, it is in the hope that their marriage will last. However, there are times within a marriage when you can question whether you should get a divorce. There are several arguments for the advantages and disadvantages of divorce. Each argument has different weighting, depending on the family's situation.

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Disadvantage: impact on children

Divorce doesn't just affect the couple who are splitting; children feel the impact, too. A disadvantage is the negative impact it will have on children. Researchers and psychologists accept that divorce can negatively affect toddlers and teenagers, according to the University of New Hampshire. Toddlers will often believe they are to blame for a divorce, while teenagers may feel pressured into siding with one parent. The results are that a child will grow up doubting their ability to marry and can suffer depression because of the break-up of his family.

Disadvantage: psychological effect on adults

An argument against divorce is its negative effect on a couple's psychological health. "Divorce has been rated the number-one life stressor," according to Arizona State University. Adults can suffer a negative psychological balance, including high levels of anxiety, unhappiness and depression. Your psychological and emotional well-being can therefore be severely damaged by divorce, and it can affect the rest of your life.

Advantage: impact on children

The impact of divorce on children has been stated previously as a disadvantage. However, there is an advantage to a child's parents splitting up. A child who experiences divorce may mature quicker and develop responsibility at a younger age. If a child's father moves out and she has younger siblings, she may have to take on a co-parental role with her mother. This exposure will give her a sense of responsibility that other areas of her life can benefit from. Also, children will benefit from divorce if there is a high level of conflict in their parents' marriage. It is unhealthy for children to be around parents who fight and criticise each other.

Advantage: personal growth

An advantage to divorce is the personal growth a person goes through after the event. "Divorced individuals report higher levels of autonomy and personal growth than married individuals do," says Miami University professor of philosophy, Robin L. Graff-Reed, in her article, "Positive Effects of Stressful Life Events: Psychological Growth Following Divorce." This is because divorced individuals have to become self-sufficient and cope with the pressures of everyday life by themselves. After divorce, individuals can develop the personal skills that can help them work towards a better quality of life for themselves and their children.

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