How to Be a Mysterious Guy So Girls Can Like You

Written by sam grover
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How to Be a Mysterious Guy So Girls Can Like You
Creating mystery can lead to a date. (Rayes/Photodisc/Getty Images)

A good way to attract women is to be mysterious. This doesn't mean compromising who you are by dressing differently, acting differently or being different than you usually are, but it does mean you need to be unpredictable and withhold information from time to time. If you are mysterious, women will want to get to the bottom of who you are, which will make them more inclined to spend time with you. This, of course, won't necessarily make women like you, but it will give you the chance to show them your personality, which some women are bound to like.

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    Change things up from time to time. This doesn't mean you need to be constantly jumping around, changing everything and never settling, but it does mean you should make an occasional change to keep women on their toes. If you normally dress casually, wear a blazer from time to time. If you're often light hearted, say something serious and insightful in conversation. Unpredictability will make women want to learn more about you.

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    Leave events before they are over. This obviously doesn't apply to movies, plays or flights, but you should never be around when a party finishes. By leaving earlier than everyone else, you will create mystery and intrigue; women you talked to will wonder what you would have said if you'd stuck around, and they will also wonder what other pressing events you had to attend to.

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    Keep interactions short and sharp. You should talk to a woman, make her laugh, hopefully get her number and then leave. This will make her wonder what else you have to offer, which will in turn make her want to see you again to find out.

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    Smile. If you smile when there is no obvious impetus for it, women will wonder what you are smiling at. This will in turn make you mysterious as they wonder what's on your mind.

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