In this age of texting and social networking, there is a certain romantic appeal to an old-fashioned phone conversation. Communication through voice alone can yield a quiet intimacy that is conducive to getting to know someone in a personal way. If your plan is to sweet talk a girl into loving you over the phone, you should be thinking about what to say and how to say it.
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Arrange a time when she is free to talk. Most young women these days probably aren't expecting phone calls from potential paramours, and she might not know what to expect. Tell her that you have been wanting to get to know her better and really want to hear her voice. For an even more old-fashioned effect, send her a card formally inviting her to the phone conversation and have it take place over a land line rather than a cell phone.
Be specific and selective in your choice of conversation topics, directing the conversation toward her interests and ideas. Ask her for a favourite recipe, advice about dealing with a situation or the last great movie she saw. Use your curiosity and empathy to convey interest, enthusiasm and support. Ask her about memories from childhood and her plans for the future. Use your sense of humour to show that you do not take yourself too seriously and that you have a balanced sense of your strengths and weaknesses.
Talk about things you have done together, and make plans to be together again. Express your feelings, telling her how much you enjoy being with her and how happy you are that she cares about and is interested in you. Tell her you love listening to her talk and that you have never met anyone like her before. Share small things about her that you have noticed, and top it all off by reading her a poem you have written about how she makes you feel.
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