Searching for the right mate can be a difficult task because you must decipher someone else's wants, needs and desires. Though astrology is not a concrete science, it does shed some light on general personality traits that can help you decrypt a potential mate. Aries males are honest and courageous leaders, but their confidence often can come across as arrogance or brashness. They often abandon projects, yet they have a zest for life that many people find appealing. If you want to win the heart of an Aries male, you must focus on the present and be comfortable in the role of follower.
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Go with the flow. An Aries male is idealistic and adventurous. He likely will take you on unpredictable dates to interesting places. Try to focus on the novel experience as opposed to the insecurity that comes with doing something unnatural. For example, if he takes you to play laser tag with his friends, try to shoot as many people as possible while having fun. Don't worry about impressing him. Rather, show him that you are game for anything.
Live in the present. Aries males do not dwell on the past or obsess with the future. So to win over your man, don't bring up awful memories from years ago or lament at the prospects of your destiny. Focus on the positive things in your life right now and ask him about his work, family and friends. Be mindful and appreciative of the things you do together, even trivial events like making dinner or walking to the store.
Become a follower. Aries males are driven by their confidence and independence. Though they are attracted to confident people, they do not like to be put into subordinate positions. Without compromising your own ideals, let him take the reins of your social calendar, at least in the beginning. Don't be afraid to speak your mind, but refrain from making him feel trapped. When a vacation is coming up, allow him to plan the itinerary.
Dress and act the part. Because Aries males enjoy being the hunter, you can get his attention by acting demure and shy. Relish the role of "hunted" by dressing in sexy clothes and lingerie. If you fulfil his fantasy in the courting stage of your relationship, you are setting yourself up with good odds to capture his heart.
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