Clubs are abundant with women who are looking to meet a dance partner or new people in general. Many of these women enjoy going out to dance at the club to unwind and have a great night out with friends. When approaching women directly, it is likely that you will meet people with whom you are just not compatible. To save time and effort, jumping right into conversation will give you an idea of who she is, what she is looking for and whether she is someone who piques your interest.
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Walk up to her and ask her if she wants to dance, if the music is too loud to hold a conversation. Bring her to the dance floor and begin dancing with her. Since it is hard to talk while the music is loud, wait until the song ends before you introduce yourself. Ask her if she wants to go to a quiet area of the club for conversation. If she declines, ask if you can go sit with her and her friends.
Start the conversation by asking her if she would like something to drink. Buy her a drink and start chatting with her about simple subjects, such as where she is from and how often she goes out dancing. It is important to ask her as soon as you can whether she is dating someone or not. This will let you know whether it is worth investing your time in getting to know her.
Show interest in getting to know her by asking questions about her once you find out her dating status. Ask about her job and if enjoys her current profession. Let her tell you about her hobbies, likes and dislikes, and anything that may stem off the conversation. For example, if she enjoys sunbathing, ask her if she goes to the beach often or her favourite sunbathing places.
Speak to her in a respectful manner and attempt to keep the conversation PG-13. Try not to seem overzealous or eager when asking her about herself or giving her information about you. It is likely that you are not the first person to approach her in the club that night. You want your conversation to be memorable and respectful, as she may not have had much luck up until you introduced yourself.
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